giRLs aRe aLwAYS cOnFuSeD

Some days ago, I was having a chat with a friend and happened to comment that boys never clean up their ward robes....

Over this he immediately said, "No gender bias...!!Its just that some of my things are not in place these days... Else otherwise I always have things on place...!!"

I immediately had to eat back my words....

I Realize that I should not be generalizing the facts for all guys....

Some days later, in the midst of some conversation.......

He Says "Girls are always confused...."

On hearing this the first thing that comes to my mind is

"No gender bias...." (But I don't say that because I gave it a thought n here is what I thought in the due course.....)

Girls are always confused

Is this a statement/fact...??

An exclamation..???!!!??

A question..??

I don't know....or to put it better 'I am confused'...!!!!

I have usually found that I get confused with many things.

In fact the more I think about a thing and analyse the situation or options, the more confused I am..

But is this always?? Yes, most of the times.... In the end, I have a clear understanding of whatever decision I make...!! Though my confusion leads to time delay while taking decisions, I find that I talk and discuss more about those things about which I am confused with my friends, family and arrive at a conclusion.. So when I give it time, I reach a pretty good conclusive decision.

But then routine things like going out...when...where..what to wear... what to eat... even such random questions confuse me a lot ........ I always find that I take time to decide on such things whereas some people are quite clear about such everyday issues ... Hmmmm.. So it seems that I have to sort out this and make a habit of deciding on things quickly.. It helps to save time as well as helps to focus and know about self choices clearly.....

And now the million dollar question........ Are just Girls always confused???

To this I agree and disagree too..... again I am sounding confused naa...???

I agree partially to it that girls are confuse but the source of confusion is thinking.... Girls sometimes think too much and confuse themselves when there is a simple, straight forward solution..... sometimes confusion is due to conflict of their own views with someone they look up to..Like in my case I am many a times confused when I have a particular view about a thing and my mom has an opposite view... I am then confused over which is right because I consider her thoughts as important too....

But these situations are faced by everyone at some or the other point of time in their life.. So, I don't think that only girls are the species subjected to it.May be they are more confused but again using the term ALWAYS for ALL GIRLS is not correct, Right...????


P.S. : Wrote this after I had a conversation with my friend Ganesh. Asked him to write about this but instead he asked me to do it and give credit to him for this... So here the credit for this post and all comments goes to you....

I wrote this after a long long time... feels good to be back .


18 Cool Views:

Karthik said...

It's not a question.
It's a statement based on some hard facts.
Girls are confused. :P
Nice post. Was smiling all through the reading. And yeah, good to know you are back. :)

An Ordinary Gal said...

Girls are not All time confused but yeah at times they are when they have a battle between thier Mind and Heart because they think too much and don't want to take any wrong decision..this is my opinion...m glad that u r back... :)

SiD said...

girls think a lot

and any human who thinks....is confused...:P

Harini said...

The main problem is we think too much and try to analyze everything. we also try to find meaning in every thing around us. So, if we make our brain do so much work, its sure to get confused :P. And on top of it we are emotional and sensitive with leads us to choosing between heart and brain... like every girl at some time or another gets confused about what to give priority to... career or family. Girls, are not always confused but sometimes yeah we are.

Good to have u back after a long time

buckingfastard said...

lets keep it simple....girls are confused and it keeps guys happy as it gives guys time to watch TV wen gals r deciding :P

Darshan Chande said...

I don't think confusion or any such psychological state is gender specific. Confusion is, as you have put it, a good thing. It triggers more thinking over the thing in concern and may lead to right decision.

PULKIT said...

to make them confused is the art of winning them... to keep them confused is the art of keeping them with u... and to clear their confusion always from the source of ur replied is the art of letting them never ever go away

Anonymous said...

urvashi...
tats true... girls r always confused.. :P khe khe khe...

godd to c u back here... even i m not able to blog these days,... :(

hope u doin good.. :D

haf fun
Anoop

Urvashi said...

@Karthik : Hard Facts...ohh Really??? :P

Good to know that it made u smile :) I guess it would have been the same with all boys reading this ....

Keep smiling.. TC :)

@An ordinary Gal : A abttle with Heart n mind... exactly..... I agree with ur opinion... :)

@SiD: Wow.. ur two lines summarise exactly what I wish to say inthe whole post...... thnks 4 the words of Wisdom :)

@Harini : yes. ur rihgt.... we cant decide o nour priorities as we give everythin importance n try to find meaning abt everythin happening arnd us.... So we r confused in the end.... Thanks 4 sharing ur thoughts over this.... :)

@Buckingfastard: time to watch TV....ohh what an atttitude..... :(

but it was good to know ur simple logic...I got to know a different perspective of my post....WHAT GUYS DO WHEN GIRLS R CONFUSED... :D

@Darshan : Yeah..confusion always leads to better decision 4 me...!!

@Pulkit: ohh wow..u hv some different philosophy out there..... !! its like the source - effect- solution of confusion.... :)

@Anoop : Hmmmm..... u agree wid it n laughing at it too...... Good :D

Yes.. nt seen u bloggin.... b b k soon... m fine.. .TC :)

adreamygal said...

m confused wat to write ;) heheheheh..I agree girls do think lot , but when guys dont use their brains , and all thinking is to be done by gals , obviously gals would be confused right ? :P heheheeheh.

nyc post...gud to c u bk:)

oRange* said...

yes, i think girls are always confused ..a majority of them are.
i think its solely because we, women think a lot :)
we like dissecting every thought which brings in a hell lotta confusion.

Dr Supriya said...

Yeah.. Me too confused at times.. And it really is a tough job when one has to decide what to wear.. What to eat.. Lols.. Where to go? Where.. when.. what.. Life is confusing aint it?

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Ganesh_Dalal said...

Wow!! I never thought that many people will agree to it n especially girls... But seems it is a fact...

Urvashi said...

@A dreamygal :U r absolutely Rite :) :)

@Orange: Yes, thinking is the root of the whole post, I guess...... . :)

@Dr. Supriya : Life is confusing nad even more confusing due to the lot of options we have for eveything.. so difficult to decide in between them..

@Ganesh : Hmmm... a fact that Girls think a lot due tto which they are confused and that guys should also start thinking ... ;)

Neha said...

welcome back! even i am back, off late :P

i beleive girls are confused most of the time coz they are scared? whatsay?

:)

Anonymous said...

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