No Emotions...Only Atyachaar..!!

A few weeks back I heard a lot about the TV show "Emotional Atyachaar" saying that how it helped people to check on their partners....!!

Feeling intrigued by what I had heard I asked my brother if he knew about the show. He said yeah and explained me about the concept.. I even watched the show and Ohh God.... The show is really a disaster of Emotions and relationships.



For those who haven't come across this controversial show on Bindass TV, here's a gist for you about the so-called-reality-show. A person who is in a relationship undertakes a "Loyalty check" on their partner. Now, for this they approach the people on this show. For the Loyalty test, the Emotional Attyachar team sends undercover agents to the partner and these agents try to get into talking with the suspect for the test and all these things are recorded using hidden cameras and microphones. These agents come about as very friendly and try to get in touch through some or the other way.

In most of the cases, the suspects also start talking to those agents, get closer to them and start sharing facts about their life and relationships.( In fact, they are made to talk about it by the over sweet and over friendly agents who is what I feel after watching the show). All these things are recorded and shown to the partners who conducted this test. They are shown how unfaithful their partners are and all that blah blah blah emotional stuff....

In the end of the show, they bring both the partners as well as the agents together in front of the camera and then there is a series of swearing, fights, abuses and all emotional attyachar stuff....

What happens after that is not known..!!!If one partner can go to such a show, it shows that he does not trust his partner and when it is proved they get agitated over it and talk about breaking up then and there. Talking about the suspect, if they are found unfaithful, their partner blames them and what if they come out as loyal (who are not distracted by any agents). Nobody in such a case would continue with a partner who doubts him/her to the extent that they conduct such TESTS......

But my question is why are people heading to this level in relationships where there is no element of trust, loyalty or respect for each other. Aren't people wise enough to judge on their own if their partners are loyal to them or are they hiding some facts..?? Talking and clearing up things should help or approaching such TV shows...??

As these shows are getting more and more publicity by telecasting such stuff and also due to added controversies, I am beginning to feel that is there any respect for emotions such as love, respect, faith or trust, in this world or are they mere tools to attract TRPs.......????

24 Cool Views:

deepa kashyap said...

I had watched many episodes n still i do wonder why people don't believe their partners make fun about their relationship in front of so many viewers of the show. its all abt publicity for which we they can do anything?? well the ans is "yes" n thats why this show is still having so many viewers n have a gud TRP..
but the fact is" pure love n suspicion can't duell each other where later enters the former makes its exist".. so do blv ue partners.. srry this cmmnt is a bit long :P

Arpit Rastogi said...

Emotional Atyachaar..
I have seen it.. n this program is complete bullshit..

i toh even think that this is all fake & recorded just like any other daily shop..

Nipun said...

I have seen this program twice or thrice and what they showed was complete crap.
I dont think that the things they are showing are true.
Just a filthy program showing some vulgarity and creating mistrust between partners who really aren'e like that..
Its upto people to think how grown up are they to handle or judge a person.
Cool work..
Emotional Atyachaar sux..

Cheers

Nuts

An Ordinary Gal said...

I have watched it...I do not believe that they show real things...these all are only for TRP.. nothing else..

Niraj said...

It's such a creepy trash..I am not able to understand why they make these kind of shows which hampers relationship and emotion rather than spreading them..

sakhii•• said...

lol...i agree iwd u...i totally do!!...this is d worst show ever...even d adds r so irritating;)

rohini said...

hmm.cant say on this reality show " " as the say...but every reality show is made up thats for sure....

rohini said...

hmm.cant say on this reality show " " as the say...but every reality show is made up thats for sure....

Karan Shah said...

hi Uravshi...
I haven't seen this show..but from what u have described it, this simply shows that this is crap...
n ya this all shows are just TRP hungry..they are jus made to sell them and are least bothered about emotions and stuff...
and are all preplanned...

ps: liked you SMS post also

Dr. Chandana Shekar said...

i havent watched it, but it sounds so crappy. whe ur loving with someone, trust that person man

Dr. Chandana Shekar said...

hey wat is blog a day by the way?

Dr. Chandana Shekar said...

hey wat is blog a day by the way?

Urvashi said...

@Deepa : Exactly...I feel the same abt the ppl on the show....!!

nice fact..... I loved ur BIG comment...Thnks.. :)

@Arpit: Hmm..i too feel at times that it cant be real... must be scripted n recorded.. the truth wud only b known ot them... :)

@Nipun : Yeah.... these shows add to the mistrust among ppl for sure...

Thnks 4 ur views.. TC :)

@An ordinary Gal : Hmmm... "TRP k liye kuch bhi karega" is the only motto for shows n channels these days...!!

@Niraj: yeah...they dont help in building or spreading emotions..they are just adding to negativity arnd....!!!

@Sakhii : Ohh wow..u even awarded it as "The worst show ever..!!" :)

@Rohini : hmmmmm.... it appears to be "made up" clearly... :)

@ Karan : Hiee..... gr8 tht u hvnt seen this show....!! Its really stupid n disaster of emotions.....

Thnks... TC :)

@Chandana: Exactly..by taking such tests people are just proving how "Deeply" they are loving(suspecting) their partners...!!

n yeah..a-blog-a-day was just a term i used jokingly..I came to ur blog after long n i read tht u had one post per day.. So i wrote tht... I dont know if some such thing exists.. :P :)

Njoy..TC :)

Gautam said...

Had never heard of this show but will do like to give it a watch! Does that say something about why it has high TRPs!! :O

Rajat said...

Atyachar even to talk about it don't ask

Muzi said...

really wanna watch dis show once...

saavi said...

emotional...'ati''aachaar'.. that's how i could gauge it... i saw the programme twice... but more than i could suspect the 'suspect' ... i wonder about the 'undercover agents' who 'duly' get personal with the suspects.. how do the mates of the undercover agents react then???... are they ('undercover agents') not the real suspects???

Ganesh_Dalal said...

I haven't watch any episode yet, and not even eager to watch any.
I completely agree with you here...
Also a nice topic you have touch upon...

Mr Happy said...

i have watched it and its really pathetic to watch, only saddist ppl can watch it

Deeps!! said...

u know when this got the scariest? when my mom calls and asks if I have seen the show.. and then she was sooo scandalised by the whole process..

she was like.. are all you kids like this..? I had no clue what to answer.. other than telling her.. that i'm not one of them.. and can never be!!

Neha said...

that show was totally badass!!!
crap in the name of entertainment...

:)

Mingled Minds said...

wokies, itz the first time i am hearing bout such a show and trust me i dont really think i would love to watch it either... nywyz is it even real is my doubt??..

Puneet Thakkar said...

after hearing so much abt this creepy show from my frds i had seen few episodes of it ..

i found it funny because no under cover agent can get so close to the victim in just few days time ... right?

now finally i think (not guess) dat dis is not real and a pre-planned show

pRasad said...

It's fake !! It's a copy of some reality show in America..and the contestent of that show agreed that they had been paid to act .